OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF FAILURE


It’s yet another great and wonderful week.

I bring to you as promised, another help from one more of my books.

I believe with the message I bring to you from this book today, there’s a lesson to be shared:

FEAR
Fear is something that holds many from the road to success, but basically it means “False Evidence Appearing Real” in its real acronyms put together. This means that it is something that is never seen but a make believes; and to be candid many fears are unfounded because by the time it is looked into nothing is ever found that caused the fear – it came of its own volition and disappears unexplainable.

Somehow understanding this is the best way to become victorious in life and all! (more from the book)!

WRONG FEAR
The wrong fears brings us down, never allowing us to see where we are going; it is the fear of not waking up the next day, the fear of what to become, the fear of whom to marry, the fear of tomorrow and future – these all keeps us thinking and worrying.

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RIGHT FEAR
The right kind of fear is to understand fear itself as a helper and overcome everything that brings the ones that will delay or limit our progress in life.

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OVERCOMING FEAR
It is very easy to fear, so stands the same for not having to fear at all. All things are easy to those who by experience have understood that fear in it itself does not come to those who are determined against all odds to become what they believe in; those who have accepted their vision and purpose as the only life that they have got. Or how can the world make a person a hero when he/she is so scared of living that everyday there is something to run away from?

More in the book:

FAILURE
Failure is the art of trying and stopping through an obstacle of life created by not seeing ahead a situation that is before one. It means a crash landing on an island of life which necessitates to either rebuilding the crash landed plane and flying again or building a house on the island and staying there without another problem; or using the solution learned in the crash landing for a better sailing through to where you were going before your fall when you are rescued.

WHY FAILURE:
A child that has been taught from childhood to fear when grown will find it hard to stop, and he who learns the art of reading devotedly cannot be stopped in the future; the same applies to the reasons of failure. Many things have been taught to man but not how not to fail in things, career, relationship, love, and life.

More in the book:

OVERCOMING FAILURE
It is very easy to overcome anything in life when we have understanding towards it. Overcoming failure is through knowing that there’s a lesson to be learned, and that every problem or failure has an expiry date to it.

More in the book:

CHARACTER
There is nothing in the world great in any way but man, there is nothing truly great in man but is character. Character is the sum total of ones qualities which distinguishes one person from the other? A gentleman’s first characteristic is the fineness of structure in his body, fineness fitted by his nature.”

More in the book:

Thank you for reading,

Enjoy your week!

John O Olanrewaju
treasured1
Poet, Author, Teacher, business manager & Publisher

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THE POWER OF DETERMINATION


A CHRISTIAN MOTIVATIONAL PIECE
I guess I just can’t stop helping you out here as I know we all do need a little help here and there to get to our dream destination in life.

So this week I bring you another analyzing help from one more of my coming book to make you learn a little of the book before they are out and see what it has in store for you and your future growth in creative business life, and vision.

I wish all the very best in reading and gleaning the facts I lay down here on this blog and to plan on laying your hands on this motivational book as its due out for your reading education.

Chapter One: GET DETERMINATION
In every way we all do need determination to get to where we are heading in life for without it we can miss our destination and hold unto compromise that will lead us on a journey of losing time, money, etc.

WHY DETERMINATION?
Every time you find work to do, do it the best you can. In the grave there is no work. There is no thinking, no knowledge and there is no wisdom…. Eccl.9 vs.10

Determination is the process of making a choice toward achieving something in life, and taking the right steps towards it, even when all things stand against making it. It is the ability to be focused on one thing without turning back until its fulfillment; the power of following your God-given vision and purpose in life till its end.

Everyone needs it to make it in life. So get determination to be what you ought and want to be!

BEING DETERMINED
But Daniel purposed in his heart that he will not defile himself with the portion of the king’s meat, or with the wine which he drank: therefore he requested of the prince of the eunuchs that he might not defile himself. (Daniel: 1 vs.8.

It takes a purposeful heart to make it in life and all.

Its up to you to become all that God has listed for you to be in all things!

DICTIONARY DEFINITION
Determination is taken from the root word ‘deter’ which is to ‘keep from an act by fear, self, punishment, etc’. And from ‘deter’ we come to ‘determine’ which means ‘to be the cause of control of something or ones mind, ambition, or future, etc’.

BIBLICAL DEFINITION!
This is the ability to make up ones mind to do the unbelievable through faith, trust in God and His word, based on known and believable or unbelievable facts seen or unseen. It is the acceptance of the word of God as the final authority, in things believed; and walking in it even though it is unacceptable, unbelievable to others because it is Gods authoritative word.

WHY THE FAILURES
If a person refuses to learn from his mistakes, then he will be poor and ashamed, but if a person listens when he his criticized or punished, then he will profit. Prov.13 vs.18

The problem of failure is a big thing in the world, not only to the poor, foolish or unwise but to all, even the wise; and the difference is very glaring to only those who by wisdom have exercised their minds to become determined against all odds to make things happen for themselves.

We have the negative and positive failures (You can find out in the book)

WHY YOU NEED DETERMINATION
Every man on earth have a dream, vision and the longing to become something great in life, and to achieve anything there must be a willingness to do and to become, which brings about why everyone need to be determined to get what they want and desire in life.

Without determination a lot of things will be left undone and others unfinished as many things will call our time and attention but we have the power to do what we want.

Until next time,

Enjoy your week!

John O Olanrewaju
treasured1
Poet, Author, Teacher, business manager & Publisher

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YOU CAN MAKE 2

It’s another wonderful day again and I come to you with more help from my book, “You Can Make It”, as that is the book in the market for now among 36 books I have written waiting to be published.

I know in time you’ll get to read a part of all of my books and see them in the market as the work progress here and there.

So let’s get started on the journey of today’s post, the part 2 of helping you out with some information from my latest book…

1. THERE ARE NO LIMITS: In many ways we often forget that there’s nothing we aren’t capable of. The human minds have no frontier except to those who have of themselves limit their life and thoughtful purpose.

Nothing stops us all from becoming achievers in life or to have that dream we are set to achieve if we can follow the right direction with focus.

2. NEVER STOP THINKING: Thoughts rule the world. This is a hard nut for some to crack as not everyone thinks aright before jumping into what they are entering into. As we all know truly well, that thoughts makes us and life is never actualized without first sitting down and thinking to procure the right solutions to a burden.

Every great poet, author, artistes/artists would never have gotten to their break through without a thought; so its your turn to think and move with the right plans in hand.

3. BE PATIENT: This is a virtue we all must cultivate as nothing can help us if we are always running to get to the finish line.

In actual fact, we will miss a lot of the joys and lessons on the way if we are not patient enough to look at the way we are going as any destination in life without speed pumps some times lead us to feel we are the best of that we do, when in actuality we are under training.

Learn to be patient!

4. FORGET THE ORDINARY: This is about you living above the mundane in this life and believing the impossible as only your belief matters in making a meaningful life and dream become a reality.

There may be some laws against you, your own set limits to set you back, only you holds the key to become all that you are dreaming of, and nothing can stop you if you know where are you are going in life with your dreams and creative talents.

So go on my friend and worry not about life’s limitations as every law can be changed if your dreams for your reality is set in the right mind and frame.

Now go and break barriers with your creative business mind and be yourself!

Till next time,

Thanks for your time,

John O Olanrewaju (Salau O John)
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YOU CAN MAKE ITT

I bet you will think me insane for doing what i am about to do here today, but in a way I am merely trying to help you out in your dreams and creative work, to become better, whether you have read my book or not.

I know its not everyone that will have the chance to lay their hands on the book but it behooves me out here to help you become the best in all your endeavors just as my book has suggested to you, if you have read it or not.

So here I’ll start this week with the first chapter even if I can’t finish its content today, I believe another day stands sure for it.

The first chapter comes with this title: “Know what you want”, and it you have subtitles to guide you on your journey of reading the book.

KNOW WHAT YOU WANT: in reality to get to your destination in life you need to know what you want or want to become, where you are going and search for your destination in actual fact.

The subtitles are:

1. Ask questions: The level at which we all go on in life, not knowing the road to making things work and never asking the right questions or asking for help at all burns us all. You need to ask questions, get mentors who know the road and have been there before you to help you gain access to your dreams and vision.

2. Be happy: Happiness is a state of mind and you need to work in that state to be the best you can as no one will offer you happiness but you in what you do, desire and work in. Just try to get yourself happy in every sense of the word and you’ll be able to think aright in your cause in life.

3. Be focused: Being focused is letting go of all other things that might come to impair your way to become that dream you have planned out for yourself. Life will bring many things our way but we decide on what to with them and which one to hold unto.

So go forth and make the right decision in your creative life!

4. Never give up: Hey, have you falling or failed in doing the things you promised yourself that you want to do and it seems achieving that thing can’t be possible? the fact remains, but in actual truth only standing up after the failure or fall makes you the person you want to be as it is said, “Rome wasn’t built in a day” and the best things in life never comes easy.

You’ve got to dust off the failed plans, pick up your lessons and move on as many are waiting for you at the finished line. Its time to run onward and never worry about the falls or failure, its all part of life and its lessons for you to be the best you can and want to.

Till next time,

Thanks for coming along with me here,

John O Olanrewaju (Salau O John)

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